Family Devotions

The Joyful Responsibility of Discipling Our Children

Parents desire many things to be true of our children as they grow and mature. For example, we want our children to be loving, respectful, caring, productive, motivated, resilient, happy, and more. All are good things and worthwhile goals and require some measure of our time and attention as we instruct and train our children toward these goals. But consider these words:

I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth. 3 John 1:4

This simple statement can serve to orient all of our parenting. More than anything, our children need to know, embrace, and walk in the truth—the truth of God. The truth revealed in His Word has the power to make them wise for salvation through faith in Jesus Christ—the truth that all-satisfying and everlasting joy is found in Him alone, the truth that saving faith will be evidenced by a life that submits to the Savior and walks in His ways. This goal and aim is reflected in Truth78’s Vision Statement—that the next generations may know, honor, and treasure God, setting their hope in Christ alone, so that they will live as faithful disciples for the glory of God.

If parents are to pursue this God-glorifying vision for our children, we must make sure to carefully prioritize and maximize our children’s spiritual instruction. While there is an important and God-ordained role for the wider body of Christ (the church) in biblical instruction, parents have the primary responsibility and the greatest opportunity to influence their children’s spiritual development. (See Deuteronomy 6:4-9.)

I don’t think there’s a mandate to be found in sacred Scripture that is more solemn than this one. That we are to teach our children the truth of God’s Word is a sacred, holy responsibility that God gives to His people. And it’s not something that is to be done only one day a week in Sunday school. We can’t abdicate the responsibility to the church. The primary responsibility for the education of children according to Scripture is the family, the parents. –R.C. Sproul, "The Most Solemn Mandate in the Bible for Parents"

One thing that often hinders parents in this regard is the pressure of competing demands on our time and energy. These are valid concerns. But consider for a moment these thoughts from Pastor Chap Bettis:

“Where does discipling my child fit with the other priorities?” Surrounding us are parents making superhuman sacrifices for their children’s soccer practice, hockey practice (5 a.m. ice time?), academic progress, and music lessons (two instruments at the same time?). We can be tempted to follow them. While we may give lip service to discipling our children, the reality comes when we start prioritizing activities.

The apostle John expressed his heart for his spiritual children when he wrote, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth” (3 John 4). Here lies the crux of the matter: The first battleground of family discipleship is not my child’s heart—it is my heart. Each parent must decide whether he is more concerned that his child be accepted into Heaven, or “Harvard.” We all have “Harvards”—those worldly successes we desire for our children, but the question remains, “Which is most important to me?” Each parent must finish the sentence “I have no greater joy than…”

I would emphasize here that the challenge of priorities is often not the good versus the bad, rather, the good versus the better. Given a finite amount of time, energy, and money, what will you choose? –Chap Bettis, pastor and author, (The Disciple-Making Parent, 17)

As parents, our first priority must be our desire for our children’s spiritual development. Then we can order our time and energies accordingly. One way to do this is to establish a regular time of formal biblical instruction in the home through family devotions.

Family Devotions Basics

At its core, family devotions simply involve setting aside a designated time in family life in which to be devoted to God together. Along with reading, interacting with, and instruction from the Scriptures, families often include a time of prayer, a response of worship (singing), and personal application. You may also end by saying a blessing over your child.

Family Devotionals

  • Glorious God, Glorious Gospel

    Give your children the full context of the truth that "Jesus died to save us from our sins." Ground them in the essential, foundational, and glorious truths of the gospel with this 15-chapter family devotional.

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  • The Making HIM Known Series

    Nine books designed to focus on particular aspects of the greatness and worth of God and our response to Him. Each book is based on one of the Truth78 curricula and designed for families. Discounted bundle includes all nine books.

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  • The Righteous Shall Live By Faith

    A Study for children and adults on the Ten Commandments. Learn about God’s perfect moral law and our inability to keep it, and how it points us to the grace God gives through the redemption offered by the death of His Son.

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  • Lord, Teach Us to Pray

    The Lord's Prayer has much to teach us about our great and glorious God as well as about prayer. Lord, Teach Us To Pray instructs young and old to approach God in prayer with a heart of submission to God’s desires and a trust in His good and right answers.

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  • Fighter Verses Studies

    Go deeper into the verses you're memorizing with devotional studies designed to help you understand and apply God's Word.

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  • A Father's Blessing

    Learn how to bless your children with sample blessings based on biblical texts. A Father's Blessing tools will help you establish and sustain a pattern for blessing your children.

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Getting Started

For some, especially those who grew up without family devotion times, leading these devotions can feel intimidating and stressful. But there are a variety of things that you can do to create a more conducive environment for your family.

Practical Tips for Regular Family Devotions

  • Have a regularly scheduled (and child friendly) time for devotions.
  • Keep track of time—stretch your children’s attention span, but don’t exasperate them.
  • If possible, the father should lead the devotional time.
  • Choose a regular place in your home—one with as few distractions as possible.
  • Put any and all electronic devices (e.g., phones, tablets) out of reach.
  • Begin your time with prayer.
  • End in prayer, and say a blessing over each child.
  • In order to motivate a younger child’s attentiveness, consider following your devotional time with a special snack or dessert.

Devotions for the mind, heart, and will

We believe that there is an important progression involved in encouraging our children for a life of faith in Christ. To put it very succinctly: MIND → HEART → WILL.

Children must first be presented with biblical truth for their minds to absorb, ponder, and understand. Knowledge of God and His Word is the essential first step for faith (Romans 10:17). You cannot trust, love, and act upon what you do not know.

Next, that truth must go beyond mere knowledge. It must reach and transform the heart so that children might truly embrace, cherish, and love the truth—specifically love of God through faith in Christ.

Finally, this love will affect the will as it comes under submission to Christ, producing decisions, choices, words, and actions that are pleasing to God.

While we must fully acknowledge that only God can bring about this Spirit-wrought, grace-dependent transformation, we believe that it is our responsibility to guide, inspire, and implore our children to make a personal and sincere response to God’s truth in their minds, hearts, and will. Therefore, our devotional resources are designed to instruct the mind, engage their hearts, and influence the will.