Beyond Conversion: The Call to Disciple Our Children

Beyond Conversion: The Call to Disciple Our Children

Before ascending into heaven, Jesus gave every Christian in every century a commission with eternal significance:

…"All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age."
—Matthew 28:18-20

Our calling is very clear—to “make disciples.” This is the greatest work in which to invest our lives! Christ's mandate to us is to see spiritual interest awaken, new birth come forth, and then to foster steady steps toward maturity in Christ...but it is a mandate wrought with privilege and true joy. Sadly, in this century we have somewhat lost the meaning of “disciple” and “discipleship.” Churches talk about discipleship. We even have discipleship programs…but there exists only a vague notion of what a “disciple” is, and little tangible evidence that we are “making disciples.” This is especially true among the children’s programs of the church. Materials are often aimed at conversion, a worthy and necessary part of discipleship, but an inadequate fulfillment of Jesus’ commission to us. In his book, The Disciple-Making Parent, Chap Bettis enlightens us with these words:

Disciple means learner, a person who wanted to learn from and take on the pattern of his rabbi. Interestingly the word Christian only occurs three times in the New Testament, while the word disciple occurs 269 times. Unfortunately, today the word Christian has the connotation of a status our children hold, a card they carry, disconnected from their daily activities. Disciple, on the other hand, implies a lifelong commitment to seek after, learn from, and stay close to our rabbi, Jesus.

(The Disciple-Making Parent—A Comprehensive Guidebook for Raising Your Children to Love and Follow Jesus Christ, copyright©2016, page 7)

Too often perhaps, we encourage our children to be “Christian” and fall short of encouraging lifelong true discipleship. Are we raising disciples who stand firm in the face of ridicule, temptation, or persecution? Do our children daily, consciously live to bring glory to Jesus Christ, ignoring the pull to be conformed to this world? Can we say that our churches are raising a generation faithful to the Word, “rightly handling the word of truth” (2 Timothy 2:15), unwavering in its commitment to defend the gospel? Will the people of this generation be committed to please God by their words, actions, and heart attitudes, brokenly confessing when they fail to do so? In short, will they be true disciples, or merely identify themselves as “Christian” in name?

Though we must preach and teach the gospel faithfully and fully, which is the primary means by which the Holy Spirit converts the soul, we must aim beyond conversion. So, aiming beyond conversion or, as Jesus put it, “baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,” how does Jesus tell us to make disciples? By “teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you.” The word “all” makes this sound like a daunting task, but even more daunting is the word “observe.” It implies that a person not only is taught the truth, but that he agrees with, embraces, and lives out the teaching—involving the mind, the heart, and the will. It defines a true disciple of Jesus Christ.

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