- Pray before entering the room.
- Establish your authority.
- Create a calm, quiet, ordered atmosphere.
- Be prepared and organized.
- Anticipate problems before they arise.
- Let children know your expectations—establish rules.
- Make your rules consistent.
- Enforce rules (don’t ignore infractions); follow through on the instructions you give.
- Let children know the consequences of misbehavior.
- Be as lenient in your rules as you can.
- Affirm positive behavior.
- Let children make choices when possible.
- Make activities interesting and fun.
- Move quickly from one activity to the next.
- Make sure activities and expectations are appropriate for the age level.
- Give warnings before activity changes (especially with preschoolers).
- Arrange your room to prevent problems.
- Separate bad combinations of children.
- Make troublemakers into helpers—keep them busy.
- Ignore attention-getting behavior (unless it is harmful or distracting to others).
- Be actively involved with the children—not talking with other adults, or doing your preparation.
- Know your children.
- Make children feel safe—let them know you will protect their rights.
- Redirect behavior.
- Let the child experience the natural consequences of his/her misbehavior when possible.
- Take action! Don’t lecture or just threaten to take action, for example: • The child loses a privilege. • The child is isolated for a time. • The child is asked to make restitution.
- Analyze causes for misbehavior.
- Pray!
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